The Power of Language

You may not realize it but your words have profound power not just in your conscious mind (what you are aware of), but also your unconscious (what you are not aware of) mind. Our brain biases toward the negative which was created evolutionarily for survival. We had to learn to anticipate the worst case outcomes to keep us alive. In current times, couple that survival brain with your own past experiences, upbringing, and cognitive biases. So many of us live in negative thought patterns without even realizing it. The problem is that staying in negative thought patterns can have significant negative effects:

1. Emotional distress: Constant negative thoughts can lead to feelings of sadness, anxiety, and hopelessness, contributing to poor mental well-being.
2. Limited perspective: Negative thinking tends to narrow one's perspective, making it difficult to see alternative solutions or positive aspects of a situation. This can hinder problem-solving and decision-making abilities.
3. Reduced self-esteem: Negative thoughts often involve self-criticism and a harsh internal dialogue, which can break down self-confidence and self-worth.
4. Impact on relationships: Negative thinking can affect interpersonal relationships, as individuals may project their negative thoughts and emotions onto others.
5. Health consequences: Persistent negative thinking can contribute to stress-related health issues, such as worsening gut symptoms, weakened immune system, and disrupted sleep patterns.

The good news is you CAN re-wire your brain, a term called neuroplasticity. It won’t happen overnight, but these small shifts can have profound effects in the long-run for your well-being. Here are some strategies for overcoming negative thinking.

1. Self-awareness: Pay attention to your thoughts and identify negative thinking patterns when they arise. Recognize that thoughts are not facts and question if it's true. 
2. Cognitive reframing: Replace negative thoughts with more realistic and positive ones. Look for evidence that supports alternative perspectives of the events.
3. Positive self-talk: Practice using positive and compassionate language when talking to yourself. Replace self-critical thoughts with more neutral or positive thoughts. 
4. Gratitude and mindfulness: Cultivate a practice of gratitude by focusing on the positive aspects of your life. Engage in mindfulness techniques to stay present and prevent runaway negative thoughts.
5. Surround yourself with positivity: Spend time with supportive and positive people who uplift you. Engage in activities that bring you joy and enhance your well-being.
6. Seek professional help: If negative thinking becomes persistent and interferes with your daily life, consider reaching out to a mental health professional or coach who can provide guidance and support.